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Love alone can survive is what I used to believe but it is not true is what life has made me realize. Although I still go by the fact that love is very important in any relationship but it is also true that there are many other things that build a relationship. Love is certainly one of them but it's not the only one. There is trust, faith, care and also touch that strengthens the relationship.
Here is a little story of my friends Raj and Alisha who everyone thought were the perfect couple and loved each other to the moon and back (as they say). Theirs was a love marriage so obviously there was a lot of love and this is what made people think and talk so much about it. They seemed like the perfect couple, back then in college they matched the color of their clothes, ate together or simply put they were always seen together.
But as it's said once you get married it's not love that keeps the relation going and in a culture like ours where the girl just doesn't get married to the boy but to the whole family, there was a lot that they had to go through. Adjusting with different family values, different cultural and religious norms is not easy, the two of them went through all of it. No doubt they survived all taunts and all the "tannas" but that spark that they used to have went missing!
The love no doubt was there but it's that passion, that spark which is vital for any relationship was found missing. They had got so busy with their lives that they did not even realize that they were not the perfect couple that they used to be. They needed that GENTLE TOUCH in their life.
Then it was that day when all of us (our old college gang) went to meet them on their 2nd Marriage Anniversary, we reminded them of what a perfect couple they used to be and that's when they realized that they needed to bring back that touch in their relation and the cutest moment was when Raj went on his knees and held Alisha's hand like the old college days and kissed it with so much love.
So it's really important to love a person but to have that passion is also equally important. This is what keeps a relation going. Get back that touch in your lives too- #BringBackTheTouch
Link- http://www.pblskin.com/
Do watch this video!
Love alone can survive is what I used to believe but it is not true is what life has made me realize. Although I still go by the fact that love is very important in any relationship but it is also true that there are many other things that build a relationship. Love is certainly one of them but it's not the only one. There is trust, faith, care and also touch that strengthens the relationship.
Here is a little story of my friends Raj and Alisha who everyone thought were the perfect couple and loved each other to the moon and back (as they say). Theirs was a love marriage so obviously there was a lot of love and this is what made people think and talk so much about it. They seemed like the perfect couple, back then in college they matched the color of their clothes, ate together or simply put they were always seen together.
But as it's said once you get married it's not love that keeps the relation going and in a culture like ours where the girl just doesn't get married to the boy but to the whole family, there was a lot that they had to go through. Adjusting with different family values, different cultural and religious norms is not easy, the two of them went through all of it. No doubt they survived all taunts and all the "tannas" but that spark that they used to have went missing!
The love no doubt was there but it's that passion, that spark which is vital for any relationship was found missing. They had got so busy with their lives that they did not even realize that they were not the perfect couple that they used to be. They needed that GENTLE TOUCH in their life.
Then it was that day when all of us (our old college gang) went to meet them on their 2nd Marriage Anniversary, we reminded them of what a perfect couple they used to be and that's when they realized that they needed to bring back that touch in their relation and the cutest moment was when Raj went on his knees and held Alisha's hand like the old college days and kissed it with so much love.
So it's really important to love a person but to have that passion is also equally important. This is what keeps a relation going. Get back that touch in your lives too- #BringBackTheTouch
Link- http://www.pblskin.com/
Do watch this video!
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